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Sharing Your Faith Made Easy

When we think about the vastness of the world and the billions of people who inhabit it, the message of the good news can feel overwhelming. How can we possibly reach everyone? Yet, if we believe that this message is meant for every person on earth, we must also believe it is meant for Nebraskans and, yes, even our neighbors across the Missouri River in Iowa.

 

When we think about the vastness of the world and the billions of people who inhabit it, the message of the good news can feel overwhelming. How can we possibly reach everyone? Yet, if we believe that this message is meant for every person on earth, we must also believe it is meant for Nebraskans and, yes, even our neighbors across the Missouri River in Iowa.

Our Mission: Reaching Those Closest to Us

We are strategically positioned to reach those geographically near us. This isn't just about proximity but about the relationships and connections we already have. God has placed us here, in this time and place, as part of a mission that traces back through centuries, all the way to the apostles. Each of us is here because someone shared the good news with us, and before them, someone else passed it on, continuing a chain of grace that spans two millennia. Our challenge is whether we will be the final link in that chain or if we will continue it by reaching one more person.

Reaching out isn't just for those with a Bible school degree or years of ministry experience. It's an all-skate—everyone is in. You can't reach 500,000 people in Omaha or 8 billion around the world by making it the exclusive job of a few. We need everyone—kids, seniors, athletes, couch potatoes, those with a fashion sense, and those without. It was the ordinary people, the "Joes" rather than the "Pros," that Jesus chose. So if you think you're just a "Joe" and not a "Pro," he's calling you to go!

Sharing the Good News: Your Story and His Story

There will come a time when you're at a table with people who don't know Jesus. Remember our challenge? At that moment, it will become clear that there's a gap in their understanding about how to find eternal life. There are two key things you should be able to do: tell your story and tell His story.

Telling Your Story

Everyone has a story. One of the biggest fears people have is that their story isn't exciting enough. They feel their story needs to be a dramatic transformation from prison to freedom. However, each of us has experienced moments of brokenness where Jesus made a difference. It could be a shift from confusion to truth, from following rules to living in grace, or from seeking gratification in worldly pleasures to finding fulfillment in Jesus. Maybe it was a moment of healing, overcoming an addiction, changing how you raise your kids, or moving from loneliness to a life filled with God's presence.

Your story doesn't need to be about moving from everything bad to everything good. Life with God is a journey, and he meets us in our brokenness, empowering us when life is at its lowest. Conversations about your story can happen anywhere—at home, in public, or even online.

Take Kylie Cole, for example. She is a school counselor, a mother, and someone who has experienced significant loss. Kylie shares her story of recovery from alcoholism openly and authentically on Facebook. Here’s a piece she shared recently:

I am ten years sober and to celebrate, I’m sharing a few pieces I’ve written over the years regarding my experience with alcohol with a corresponding picture from the day I wrote it. Behind smiles in photos are often hurts, grief, struggles, anger, pain, etc. - all of which don’t show up in a picture.

The writings are raw, authentically me, and it brings me joy and peace sharing in hopes that my vulnerability breeds vulnerability in others.

This one might be my favorite:

Thirsty (Oct 2023)

I’m Kylie, I’m an alcoholic. And it’s been 9 years and 4 months since I’ve had a drink. And I’m thirsty.

For soul rest
For freedom
For unconditional love
For fun
For redemption

In my heart: I believe all these things are found only in Jesus. In my head: I want a drink that’s a little stronger, no offense.

When I drank, I let go. When I drank, I cried. When I drank, someone else was the strong one. When I drank, my walls came down. When I drank, I felt free.

A drink sounds pretty good right now.

I wasn’t made to be the strong one. I wasn’t made to bear the weight of the cross. I wasn’t made to prove my worth or earn my way.

He was. He is. And He always will be.

But practically?

“Surrender” makes me want to puke. “Trust” is difficult for me. “Obey” - uhhhhhh “Love” - don’t even get me started…

I don’t have this figured out, not even close. And it pains me to say I don’t think I’ll ever “get there”.

I’m a mess. I’m on multiple therapists’ calendars.

Kylie wants a drink. The Holy Spirit says He’s the answer.

“Everyone who drinks from this well will thirst again. But whoever drinks from the water I give will never thirst again.”

I’m Kylie.

And in Christ, I am a child of God. I am a daughter of the King. I am forgiven, washed clean by His blood, and redeemed. I am loved unconditionally by a perfect Father. I have been given the gift of the Holy Spirit to guide me and sanctify me. I have nothing to earn or prove because He’s done it all already. I was made for a purpose: to know Him and glorify Him in all - to love Him, and out of that love, love others. I will spend eternity in heaven with Him.

I’m still thirsty.

But I know, that I know, that I know.

He who quenches that thirst.

— Kylie Cole

Kylie’s story is a powerful example of vulnerability and humility. It points to Jesus, not herself, and reveals a window of brokenness—thirst—that many can relate to.

Think about your own windows of brokenness. How has Jesus transformed those parts of your life? This past week, I had dinner with a friend from my science and faith forum. After listening to his spiritual journey, I shared my story of moving from skepticism to clarity. It was a powerful moment.

Telling His Story: The Three Circles

Now, let's talk about telling His story. Sometimes, you'll have the chance to explain the main message of Christianity in just a few minutes. Whether you’re addressing misconceptions about Jesus or simply sharing the good news, it helps to have a clear and concise tool.

One such tool is the "Three Circles" method:

  1. Circle of Brokenness:

    • We live in a world full of brokenness—abusive relationships, divorce, greed, people hurting people, suicide, wars, anxiety.

    • We try to escape through alcohol, success, changing partners, or escapism through TV or the internet, but we always get pulled back into brokenness, often worse than before.

    • This sense that something is deeply wrong comes from the fact that the world isn't as it was meant to be.

  2. Circle of God’s Design:

    • God designed the world to operate according to His ways—love, abundance, order, healthy relationships, justice, humility.

    • Our hearts long for this, but every human has turned away from it. Every time we betray God's ways—whether through lying, judgment, or more severe sins—we contribute to the world's brokenness. This rebellion is called sin, and everyone is guilty.

    • If we die in this state, we remain separated from God forever.

  3. Circle of Jesus' Solution:

    • God provided a solution by sending Jesus to our broken world. Jesus took all the brokenness—the lies, hatred, and murder upon Himself and paid the ultimate price by dying.

    • But the game-changer is that He rose from the dead. Jesus conquered death and brought a new way of life—a kingdom where He reigns as our king, bringing peace, healing, and restoration.

    • To enter this new life, we must trust Him rather than our own efforts or escapes and ask Him to be our king.

You can ask someone, "Where do you see yourself living right now? In brokenness or in God’s perfect design? Where would you like to live?" If they express a desire to live in God's design, offer to help them get there.

Practicing the Three Circles

I appreciate several things about the Three Circles method:

  1. It starts with brokenness, which everyone can relate to. Starting with God might lead to immediate rejection, but brokenness is a common ground.

  2. It highlights God's heart and explains sin in a way that gives everyone responsibility.

  3. The solution of Jesus is clear, emphasizing His death, resurrection, and kingdom.

  4. It concludes with life, renewal, and aligning with God's heart.

  5. You can add elements like Bible verses or additional steps for growth and ongoing discipleship.

To get comfortable with this tool, it’s important to practice. Sharing the gospel, like any skill, requires repetition. Athletes, pilots, and musicians all get better through repeated practice, and the same goes for sharing your faith.

A Challenge for This Week

This week, I challenge you to share the Three Circles with someone who isn't a regular churchgoer. Tell them you’ve just learned this new tool to explain Christianity in under three minutes and ask for their feedback.

Remember, it takes practice to get good at this. You might feel awkward at first, but God will guide you. Let's continue the chain of grace by reaching one more person.

If you’d like a quick refresher, check out this video that explains the Three Circles in under three minutes: Three Circles in Three Minutes.

Let’s go out and share the good news!

 
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Lead Minister Mark Ashton Lead Minister Mark Ashton

Turning Walls into Tables

Have you ever stumbled across one of those channels on YouTube that are all about “fails”? If not, let me paint you a picture. It’s a treasure trove of 10-second clips showcasing people’s misadventures—think golf carts splashing into lakes, BMX riders wiping out, or the classic guy walking into an invisible sliding glass door. It's a collage of human error, often hilarious, yet oddly relatable. There’s something about other people’s missteps that strikes a chord, bringing out our inner junior high humor.

In many ways, my attempts at sharing my faith often resemble a reel fails. I imagine myself confidently sharing my beliefs, only to find the ramp collapsing beneath me, or running headlong into an invisible wall. Can anyone else relate?

 

Have you ever stumbled across one of those channels on YouTube that are all about “fails”? If not, let me paint you a picture. It’s a treasure trove of 10-second clips showcasing people’s misadventures—think golf carts splashing into lakes, BMX riders wiping out, or the classic guy walking into an invisible sliding glass door. It's a collage of human error, often hilarious, yet oddly relatable. There’s something about other people’s missteps that strikes a chord, bringing out our inner junior high humor.

In many ways, my attempts at sharing my faith often resemble a reel fails. I imagine myself confidently sharing my beliefs, only to find the ramp collapsing beneath me, or running headlong into an invisible wall. Can anyone else relate?

The beauty of Jesus’ teachings, though, lies in his masterful guidance on navigating these very walls. He didn’t just acknowledge their existence—he taught his disciples how to overcome them. Today, let's explore four such walls: Tribalism, Distraction, Religion, and Conversational Avoidance. Through one powerful story, we’ll see how Jesus dismantled each one.

The Journey Begins: Mark 7:31

Our journey starts in Mark 7:31, where Jesus leaves Tyre and travels through Sidon down to the Sea of Galilee, finally entering the region of the Decapolis. To fully appreciate this, let’s bring up a map for a visual aid.

Imagine Jesus and his disciples at their ministry hub in Capernaum. Typically, their trips were within familiar Jewish territory. But this time, Jesus takes them on an unexpected detour. They head north to Tyre and Sidon, notorious for their Baal worship and as Jezebel’s hometown. They then turn southeast into the Decapolis, a predominantly Gentile area.

For the disciples, this journey must have been like venturing into unknown, even hostile, territory. It's akin to modern-day explorers stepping into regions where they might not be warmly received. Yet, Jesus has a purpose: to break down the walls dividing them from others.

Wall 1: Tribalism

Tribalism is a universal barrier. It’s present in language, culture, and history. Whether it’s lingering sports rivalries or deep political divides, tribalism thrives on creating “us vs. them” dynamics.

Even in Nebraska, sports loyalties run deep, like the grudge against Miami from that football game back in 1981. The most glaring example today, however, might be the political chasm between Democrats and Republicans, each side often reduced to stereotypes by media outlets.

Jesus addressed tribalism by physically leading his disciples into the heart of it—the Decapolis, a land teeming with non-Jews. His approach was radical: instead of avoiding the unfamiliar, he turned walls into tables. He invited his followers to sit with those different from them, to find common ground, and to see the shared humanity in everyone.

Application: Go where people are, especially where you’re the minority. Engage in neighborhoods, schools, and social settings where you can build bridges rather than walls.

Wall 2: Distraction

Mark 8:1-21 brings us to the miracle of feeding the 4,000. Despite having witnessed Jesus multiply bread before, the disciples are again unsure of how to feed the crowd. This time, though, the miracle isn’t just about providing a meal; it's about time together.

Jesus spent three days with these people, building trust and rapport. By the time the crowd sat down to eat, they were no longer strangers but a community. This prolonged engagement turned a barren plain into a shared table where everyone was nourished.

Application: Prioritize time with people, especially those outside your faith community. It's easy to get distracted by our own lives, but genuine connections require investment. Create opportunities for leisurely conversations, and share meals that foster deeper relationships.

Wall 3: Religion

After crossing back to the other side of the lake, the Pharisees demand a sign from Jesus, testing him. But Jesus refuses to perform on demand, instead warning his disciples to beware of the “yeast of the Pharisees” (Mark 8:11-15).

This yeast symbolizes the insidious nature of religion as performance—where faith becomes about checking boxes and following rules rather than a genuine relationship with God. True faith transcends the confines of religious ritual, inviting a dynamic and life-giving connection with the divine.

Application: Shift focus from religious rituals to a personal relationship with Jesus. People are not seeking a rulebook but a transcendent experience of God. Point others to the person of Jesus, not merely the principles of a system.

Wall 4: Conversational Avoidance

As Jesus continued teaching, he used the miracles to engage his disciples in deeper reflection. The symbolism of the numbers in the feeding miracles—12 baskets for the 5,000 in Jewish territory and 7 for the 4,000 in Gentile land—was a lesson in inclusivity and completeness (Mark 8:16-21).

Jesus constantly initiated conversations that provoked thought and insight, inviting people to see beyond the obvious. This kind of engagement is crucial in breaking through the wall of conversational avoidance.

Application: Be a guide in conversations. Share your insights and ask questions that encourage deeper thinking. Turn mundane moments into opportunities for meaningful dialogue.

Conclusion: From Walls to Tables

To truly share our faith, we must transform walls into tables:

  • Tribalism into common ground.

  • Distraction into quality time together.

  • Religion into a hunger for the transcendent.

  • Conversational Avoidance into engagement.

As we navigate these walls, let's follow Jesus’ example—embracing the journey, sitting down at tables with those different from us, and sharing our lives in a way that invites others into the richness of faith. By doing so, we can turn moments of potential failure into opportunities for deeper connection and understanding.

Reflect and Engage

  • Identify a wall: What are the barriers in your own life that keep you from engaging with others meaningfully?

  • Take a step: How can you transform a wall into a table this week? Whether it’s spending time with someone new, engaging in a deeper conversation, or simply being present, take that step.

  • Share your story: How have you overcome walls in your journey of faith? Sharing your experiences can inspire others to do the same.

Let’s commit to turning our walls into tables, creating spaces where everyone is welcome and where the richness of faith can be shared freely.

Blog adapted from June 23, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Embracing Jesus’ Invitation

 

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle, often losing sight of what’s truly important—compassion and connection. This struggle is not new. In fact, it dates back to biblical times, as illustrated in a powerful story from the Gospel of Luke. This story reminds us of the significance of compassion over rigid adherence to rules.

In Luke 14, we find Jesus at the home of a prominent Pharisee, engaging in a Sabbath meal. Here’s how the story unfolds: Jesus asked the Pharisees and experts in the law, “Is it lawful to heal on the Sabbath or not?” But they remained silent. So taking hold of the man, he healed him and sent him on his way. Then he asked them, “If one of you has a child or an ox that falls into a well on the Sabbath day, will you not immediately pull it out?” Jesus uses this moment to challenge the Pharisees and their understanding of the Sabbath. He questions whether it is lawful to do good on the Sabbath, effectively placing compassion and human need above strict observance of religious laws.

The Joy of Sharing a Meal

I love food. This is no secret. All types of food, too—tacos, Thai, pasta, pizza, burgers, brats… breakfast sausages! Recently, I made chicken shawarma in my oven and frequently whip up a mean charcuterie spread. There’s something special about food made for you—it just tastes better. In some ways, I have the same palette as a hobbit from LOTR. What about second breakfast? Elevensies? While the food itself is delightful, what I cherish most about meals is the rich, refreshing community that forms around the table. It’s a time to connect, catch up, slow down, and reflect on life together. Meals are a gift from God, a regular rhythm that forces us to stop and be present with one another.

Food and Fellowship: A Divine Gift

Around my table, we often do a “check-in,” something I learned from close friends in North Carolina. It’s simple: share a burden or a blessing. What are you thankful for? What is weighing heavy on your heart? We take time to share, discuss, and pray. This practice transforms a meal into a space of support and connection. Another way to enhance mealtime is by using a question starter deck of cards. Pull one from the deck, read it aloud, and give everyone a minute or so to respond. These little practices can turn a meal into a profound experience of community and reflection.

Sabbath Meal and Healing

The story of Jesus healing on the Sabbath, particularly during a meal, provides a powerful context for understanding the true spirit of the Sabbath. Jesus was at the home of a prominent Pharisee, likely invited to share in a meal, to dialogue, and to enjoy each other’s company. But as the text indicates, Jesus was being carefully watched.

One Sabbath, when Jesus went to eat in the house of a prominent Pharisee, he was being carefully watched. There in front of him was a man suffering from abnormal swelling of his body. Jesus asked the Pharisees and experts in the law, “Is it lawful to heal on the Sabbath or not?” But they remained silent. So taking hold of the man, he healed him and sent him on his way. Then he asked them, “If one of you has a child or an ox that falls into a well on the Sabbath day, will you not immediately pull it out?” And they had nothing to say.

Jesus’ actions and questions reveal a deeper understanding of the Sabbath. It was not merely a day of rest and refraining from work but a day to do good, to show mercy, and to embody God’s love. He challenged the Pharisees’ rigid interpretation, highlighting that the Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath.

Reflecting on Humility and Hospitality

Following this event, Jesus turns the conversation towards humility and hospitality. He observes how guests pick places of honor at the table and offers a parable on taking the lowest place:

When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or sisters, your relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.

Jesus expands the vision of hospitality, encouraging us to invite those who cannot repay us, embodying true generosity and love. This teaching invites us to reflect on our guest lists and to consider extending our hospitality to those who are often overlooked.

The Great Banquet: An Invitation to All

Jesus further illustrates this point with the Parable of the Great Banquet:

“A certain man was preparing a great banquet and invited many guests. At the time of the banquet he sent his servant to tell those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’ But they all alike began to make excuses… The servant came back and reported this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry and ordered his servant, ‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.’”

This parable underscores the inclusive nature of God’s Kingdom. Those who initially received the invitation but made excuses represent those who miss out on the blessing because of their preoccupations. The master’s decision to invite the marginalized shows that God’s invitation is open to all, especially those who society often neglects.

Embracing Jesus’ Teachings

The teachings of Jesus on the Sabbath, humility, and hospitality challenge us to prioritize compassion and inclusivity. As we gather around our tables, let us remember the lessons from Jesus’ life and ministry. Let us embrace opportunities to do good, show mercy, and extend our hospitality beyond our usual circles. In doing so, we not only follow Jesus’ example but also create a community where everyone is seen, valued, and loved. Let us open our hearts and tables, inviting others to join in the feast of God’s Kingdom.

At this table, everyone is welcome. At this table, everybody matters. So come, pull up a chair.

Blog adapted from June 16, 2024, message by Minister Jed Logue

 
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Does Jesus Still Heal?

In the heart of the Gospels, we encounter profound stories of Jesus interacting with the broken and marginalized, offering them healing and hope. The Gospel of Matthew, particularly chapters 8 and 9, provides a vivid narrative of these encounters, showcasing not only Jesus' compassion but also his power to heal and transform lives. Let's delve into these passages and uncover the timeless lessons they hold for us today.

 

In the heart of the Gospels, we encounter profound stories of Jesus interacting with the broken and marginalized, offering them healing and hope. The Gospel of Matthew, particularly chapters 8 and 9, provides a vivid narrative of these encounters, showcasing not only Jesus' compassion but also his power to heal and transform lives. Let's delve into these passages and uncover the timeless lessons they hold for us today.

Matthew's Perspective on Jesus' Ministry

Matthew, one of Jesus' closest disciples, offers a unique perspective. In Matthew 9:9, we find him at his tax collector booth when Jesus calls him with a simple yet profound invitation: "Follow me." There was something irresistibly magnetic about Jesus that compelled Matthew to abandon his old life and embark on a new journey of faith.

This decision wasn't made in isolation. Matthew immediately gathered his friends, fellow tax collectors, and even some individuals of questionable reputation, for a meal with Jesus. This gathering is a testament to Matthew's understanding of relational influence—he wanted his friends to meet Jesus and experience the transformative power he had encountered. No sermon series or elaborate planning was needed; Matthew just knew that bringing people to Jesus was the most powerful act he could do.

The Pharisees' Challenge and Jesus' Response

As Jesus dined with Matthew and his eclectic group of friends, the Pharisees looked on with disdain. They questioned Jesus' choice of company, asking his disciples why he would associate with "tax collectors and sinners." Jesus' response is profound: "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance" (Matthew 9:12-13).

This interaction highlights Jesus' mission—to seek out and save those who are lost. He wasn't interested in maintaining social or religious boundaries but rather in breaking them down to reach those in desperate need of God's grace and healing.

A Series of Miracles in Capernaum

The narrative in Matthew chapters 8 and 9 unfolds in Capernaum, Jesus' ministry headquarters and Matthew's hometown. Here, we witness a series of miraculous events:

  1. Healing a Leper: Jesus touches and heals a man with leprosy, breaking social norms and demonstrating his willingness to embrace the untouchable.

  2. Peter's Mother-in-Law: Jesus heals her fever, showing his concern for everyday ailments.

  3. Demon-Possessed Men: Jesus frees them from their torment, illustrating his power over evil forces.

  4. Calming the Storm: Demonstrating his authority over nature, Jesus calms a raging storm, bringing peace to his disciples.

  5. Paralyzed Man: Jesus forgives his sins and heals his paralysis, highlighting the interconnectedness of spiritual and physical healing.

  6. Raising a Dead Girl and Healing a Bleeding Woman: Jesus' power extends over life and death, offering hope and restoration to the hopeless.

Each miracle is a testament to Jesus' dual mission: proclaiming the arrival of God's kingdom and demonstrating its power through acts of healing and compassion.

Faith and Healing: The Story of the Blind Men

In Matthew 9:27-31, two blind men follow Jesus, calling out for mercy. Jesus engages them with a crucial question, "Do you believe that I am able to do this?" Their affirmative response, "Yes, Lord," leads to their healing. Jesus touches their eyes and says, "According to your faith let it be done to you," and their sight is restored.

This story underscores the power of faith in unlocking divine healing. Jesus' question about their belief isn't just a formality; it's a pivotal moment that invites them to express their faith, which in turn activates his healing power.

Interestingly, Jesus performs the miracle indoors, away from the public eye, and instructs them not to spread the news. This request seems almost impossible to keep, given the profound change in their lives. Yet, it highlights Jesus' desire to manage the timing of his public revelation, avoiding premature attempts by the people to crown him as a political Messiah.

Practical Applications for Us Today

The stories of Jesus' miracles aren't just historical accounts; they carry profound implications for our lives today.

Praying for and with Others

We often underestimate the power and openness of prayer in today's world. Surveys show that a significant majority of people pray, yet many rarely do so out loud or with others. As followers of Jesus, we have a unique opportunity to offer prayer as a tangible expression of God's presence and care.

Whether it's a quick prayer for a neighbor going through a tough time or a more intentional moment of intercession for a friend's healing, our willingness to pray can create powerful moments of connection and hope. As we listen for the Holy Spirit's prompting, we can step into these moments with confidence, trusting that God will work through our prayers.

Trusting God for Healing

At our church, we believe that God's healing power is still active today. Physical, emotional, and spiritual healing are all areas where we can seek and experience God's intervention. Whether through prayer, medical treatment, counseling, or other means, we trust that God is at work bringing wholeness and restoration.

However, we also recognize that healing doesn't always come in the way or timeframe we expect. Sometimes, God uses conventional means like medicine or therapy. Other times, healing might be delayed or look different than we hoped. In all cases, we are called to trust God's goodness and timing.

Embracing the Kingdom of God

Jesus' ministry was marked by a balance of proclamation and demonstration—sharing the good news of God's kingdom and showing its power through acts of compassion and healing. As we follow Jesus' example, we are invited to embody this same balance in our lives.

By offering prayers, seeking healing, and sharing our faith with others, we participate in the ongoing work of God's kingdom. We become conduits of his love and power, bringing hope and healing to those around us.

So, let us embrace the call to follow Jesus closely, to pray boldly, and to trust deeply in his ability to heal and transform lives. As we do, we will witness the incredible impact of his presence and power in our world today.


Blog adapted from June 9, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton



 
 
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Who’s at Your Table?

As we consider the events of one of the most pivotal evenings in Scripture, we need to note the significance of the setting—a meal. This isn't just any meal; it's the Last Supper. Jesus is dining with His disciples for the last time, making a profound impression before His crucifixion. This moment was so remarkable that John dedicates two full chapters to it. Before we dive into the text, let's consider a provocative question: Were the disciples saved at the time of the Last Supper?

 

As we consider the events of one of the most pivotal evenings in Scripture, we need to note the significance of the setting—a meal. This isn't just any meal; it's the Last Supper. Jesus is dining with his disciples for the last time, making a profound impression before His crucifixion. This moment was so remarkable that John dedicates two full chapters to it. Before we dive into the text, let's consider a provocative question: Were the disciples saved at the time of the Last Supper? This question stirs much debate among Christians. Some believe the disciples were saved the moment they left everything to follow Jesus. Others point to Peter’s confession at Caesarea Philippi, “You are the Christ, the son of the living God.” Some argue it was when Jesus breathed on them, saying, “Receive the Holy Spirit.” Still, others contend it was not until the Holy Spirit came at Pentecost.

The answer remains uncertain, but one thing is clear: at this point, the disciples were still in the process of formation. Jesus sat at the table with the twelve men who had been instrumental in his ministry for three years—his closest companions.

The Last Supper Begins

John 13:2 tells us, "The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus." Despite knowing what lay ahead—Peter's denial and Judas' betrayal—Jesus chose to share this meal with them. These men, spiritually confused yet deeply loving, were still not fully committed. They were in process, much like everyone else.

John 13:4-11 describes Jesus washing the disciples' feet. Peter initially resists, saying, “You shall never wash my feet.” But Jesus replies, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.” Peter then asks for his whole body to be washed. Jesus explains that once baptized, they are clean, but they still need to confess and be cleansed of daily sins. This act symbolizes Jesus' ongoing forgiveness and Peter’s next step towards deeper trust.

John 13:21-27 recounts Jesus predicting His betrayal, identifying Judas as the betrayer by giving him a piece of dipped bread. Despite knowing Judas would betray Him and Peter would deny him, Jesus still included them. He welcomed people regardless of their backgrounds or beliefs.

Even Jesus experienced betrayal. If he faced it, we should expect and endure similar experiences. John 14:1-10 emphasizes faithfulness and clarity. When Thomas expresses confusion about knowing the way, Jesus responds, “I am the way and the truth and the life.” This statement underscores Jesus’ exclusive path to the Father, stressing the importance of belief in him.

Moving One Step to the Right

Imagine a scale from 1 to 100, with 50 being the point of crossing the line of faith. People range from atheists and those wounded by religion at the lower end to paragons of virtue like Mother Teresa and Billy Graham at the higher end. Where were the disciples on this scale? Scholars debate, but the exact location is less important than the trajectory. Jesus focused on helping them take one step to the right, moving closer to him.

This concept is crucial: everyone is in process. Every person we sit down with at a table is on a journey, just as the disciples were. Whenever Jesus sat down at a table, He considered who was there and helped them take a step forward in their faith journey.

Jesus' inclusive approach challenges us. Do we exclude people because of their political views, addictions, or different backgrounds? Do we welcome those with different religious convictions? By being in relational proximity, we can influence others positively. This week, share a table with someone. Plan or make an invitation. Let's emulate Jesus, the friend of sinners, by loving, inviting, and being with people.

Blog adapted from May 26, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton


 
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The Miracle at Cana: Jesus, the Wedding Crasher Who Brought the Best Wine

Welcome to a new series called "At This Table," an early summer journey inspired by the way Jesus connected deeply with others at tables. Whether at Mary and Martha's place, the home of a Pharisee, or the Last Supper, many significant moments in Jesus' ministry happened at tables. This series comes with a challenge for you to choose your level of engagement: Easy, Medium, or Hard. But first, let’s explore the beauty and importance of food and fellowship.

 

Welcome to a new series called "At This Table," an early summer journey inspired by the way Jesus connected deeply with others at tables. Whether at Mary and Martha's place, the home of a Pharisee, or the Last Supper, many significant moments in Jesus' ministry happened at tables. This series comes with a challenge for you to choose your level of engagement: Easy, Medium, or Hard. But first, let’s explore the beauty and importance of food and fellowship.

Challenge for the Summer – Easy, Medium, or Hard?

  • Easy: Perfect for those in crisis or feeling overwhelmed.

  • Medium: Ideal for those doing generally well.

  • Hard: For those hungry for more of Jesus and eager for transformation.

The Gift of Food & Community

Food is a universal gift. I love it in all forms – ethnic, cheesy, grilled, dessert. But it wasn't until I was a sophomore in college, during a "Retreat of Silence," that I truly appreciated food as a gift. We were sent with a simple sack lunch and instructed to eat slowly, savoring each bite and thanking God for it. This experience opened my eyes to the goodness of God in giving us the senses to enjoy food. Preparing food is hard work, often requiring communal effort. This necessity drives us to gather around meals, fostering community. God designed food to be a part of our community life, not just for nourishment but to bring us together.

Jesus and the Table

Jesus often chose meals to connect and transform lives. His first public miracle at the wedding in Cana (John 2:1-11), where he turned water into wine, illustrates his transformative power and generosity. This miracle wasn't just about making wine; it symbolized the new covenant of grace, surpassing the old covenant represented by the ceremonial jars.

Observations from Cana

First, this was Jesus' first public miracle, his "coming out party." Although he seemed reluctant, saying, “My hour has not yet come,” he performed the miracle out of respect and love for his mother and the hosts. This act not only solved an immediate problem but also symbolized the abundance and quality of the new covenant he was bringing. Jesus performed miracles out of love and compassion. At Cana, he saved the hosts from social embarrassment, showing his care for their well-being. He attended weddings, dined with tax collectors and Pharisees, and each time, he brought transformation and blessing.

The Summer of 1,000 Tables

Our dream is to share meals with people who don’t know Jesus, aiming for the "Summer of 1,000 Tables."

  • Easy: Share one meal this summer.

  • Medium: Share a meal once a month.

  • Hard: Share a meal once a week.

The context doesn't matter – it could be a barbecue with neighbors, lunch with coworkers, or a hotdog at a golf course. The goal is relational proximity to non-Christians.

Pray, Eat, and Be a Blessing

When Jesus shows up at a table, he brings blessings. As you share meals, be intentional in praying daily, eating together, and being a blessing. Look for opportunities to make lives around you better through simple acts of kindness and encouragement.

Practical Blessing Examples

  • Sincere Compliments: Encouraging words to neighbors, especially dads, can be powerful.

  • Engagement: Playing with neighborhood kids or inviting them to events.

  • Acts of Service: Bringing meals to families in need or helping with yard work.

By following these simple steps, you'll see dramatic transformations in your relationships and opportunities to share Jesus' love.

Got it? Pray daily, eat together, and be a blessing. Reflect on what God wants you to do this summer. More insights and challenges await next week.

Let's embrace this journey together and make this summer a season of deep, transformative connections around our tables.

Blog adapted from May 19, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Building Up The Church

In the tapestry of Paul's letters, we often encounter a mosaic of diverse themes, perspectives, and instructions. Much like the intricate mosaic I once beheld beneath the Lakeshore Drive bridges in Chicago, Paul's writings can initially appear fragmented and disparate. Each passage, like an individual tile, holds its own significance, yet it is only when we step back to appreciate the broader picture that we discern the interconnectedness of Paul's messages.

 

In the tapestry of Paul's letters, we often encounter a mosaic of diverse themes, perspectives, and instructions. Much like the intricate mosaic I once beheld beneath the Lakeshore Drive bridges in Chicago, Paul's writings can initially appear fragmented and disparate. Each passage, like an individual tile, holds its own significance, yet it is only when we step back to appreciate the broader picture that we discern the interconnectedness of Paul's messages.

Consider Corinthians, where Paul addresses a myriad of issues ranging from spiritual gifts to the conduct of worship. At first glance, these topics may seem unrelated, even contradictory. However, upon closer examination, we discover a common thread weaving through Paul's words: the overarching goal of building up the church in love and unity. Just as the mosaic in Chicago revealed a larger illustration when viewed from a distance, so too does Paul's mosaic of letters unveil a grand narrative of God's redemptive plan for His people.

Contextualizing Paul's Priorities

To unlock the full depth of Paul's teachings, we must delve into the foundational priorities that shape his theological framework. Throughout his epistles, Paul consistently emphasizes three central themes: love, unity, and mutual edification. These priorities serve as guiding principles, illuminating the path for believers as they navigate the complexities of Christian living.

In Corinthians, Paul's commitment to these priorities shines brightly. His exhortations regarding spiritual gifts, conduct in worship, and the roles of men and women all stem from his unwavering dedication to fostering a community marked by love and unity. Whether admonishing the Corinthians to pursue love above all else or encouraging them to embrace their diverse spiritual gifts for the edification of the body, Paul's overarching goal remains clear: to build up the church as a vibrant and cohesive fellowship of believers.

Applying Paul's Principles Today

As we contemplate the timeless wisdom of Paul's letters, we are compelled to consider how his teachings resonate in our contemporary context. Just as Paul sought to guide the Corinthians in their pursuit of a flourishing church community, so too are we called to nurture and strengthen the body of Christ in our time.

In grappling with complex issues such as spiritual gifts, worship practices, and gender roles, we must approach them with humility, discernment, and a steadfast commitment to the principles of love and unity. Rather than viewing Paul's words as rigid mandates, we should seek to embody the spirit of his teachings, creating an inclusive and uplifting environment where every member is valued and empowered to contribute.

Just as each tile contributes to the beauty of a mosaic, so too does each believer enrich the tapestry of the church with their unique gifts and perspectives. By embracing Paul's priorities and applying them with wisdom and grace, we can continue to build upon the foundation he laid, fashioning a community that reflects the boundless love and transformative power of the Gospel.

Blog adapted from April 21, 2024, message by Minister Dawn Gentry

 
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Defining Love

In a world often marred by division and discord, love stands as the universal language that transcends barriers and binds us together. It's a force that drives us, motivates us, and gives our lives profound meaning. Within the realm of faith, love holds a position of unparalleled importance, serving as the cornerstone upon which our beliefs and actions are built. In this blog we take a look at arguably the greatest love chapter of the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13, delving deep into its wisdom and uncovering the profound truths it holds about the nature of love.

 

In a world often marred by division and discord, love stands as the universal language that transcends barriers and binds us together. It's a force that drives us, motivates us, and gives our lives profound meaning. Within the realm of faith, love holds a position of unparalleled importance, serving as the cornerstone upon which our beliefs and actions are built. In this blog we take a look at arguably the greatest love chapter of the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13, delving deep into its wisdom and uncovering the profound truths it holds about the nature of love.

Understanding the Literary Structure: The Chiasm

Before delving into the heart of 1 Corinthians 13, it's crucial to grasp its intricate literary structure. This chapter is nestled within a broader narrative spanning 1 Corinthians 11 to 14, intricately woven together in a chiastic form. Like a mirror reflecting interconnected themes, this structure reveals a profound truth: love permeates every facet of Paul's discourse. From discussions on order in worship to the nature of spiritual gifts, love emerges as the unifying thread that binds together the diverse elements of Christian life. It's a reminder that love isn't merely a sentiment but the very essence of our worship and community life.

Love: The Eternal Virtue

As we unravel the verses of 1 Corinthians 13, we encounter a profound revelation of love's nature. Love isn't just a fleeting emotion or a momentary act of kindness. It's a steadfast commitment, an unwavering dedication to the well-being of others. It's patient, enduring, and unfailingly kind, bearing all things and enduring all things. Yet, it's also a mirror that reflects our growth and shortcomings. It challenges us to confront our flaws, to relinquish pride and selfishness, and to embrace a higher standard of love that transcends mere sentimentality.

Exploring Love's Reach and Impact

Beyond the confines of personal relationships, love extends its reach into the broader tapestry of human existence. It's a force that compels us to extend compassion to the marginalized, to stand up for justice in the face of oppression, and to build communities rooted in empathy and understanding. Love isn't passive; it's a catalyst for change, inspiring acts of courage and selflessness that have the power to transform lives and reshape societies. In embracing love as both a virtue and a calling, we become agents of hope and healing in a world desperately in need of both.

In the grand tapestry of faith, hope, and love, it's love that emerges as the supreme virtue. It's the driving force behind our actions, the catalyst for change, and the beacon of hope in a world shrouded in darkness. As we journey through life, let us hold fast to faith, let us cling to hope, but above all, let us embody love in all that we do. For in the end, it's love that binds us together, sustains us through trials, and leads us into the embrace of the divine. As we strive to live out the profound truths of 1 Corinthians 13, may our lives become a testament to the transformative power of love.

Blog adapted from April 14, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Headship and Head Coverings

Before delving into the intricate passages of 1 Corinthians 11, it's crucial to approach the text with humility and recognition of its complexity. Within Christian circles, interpretations of this chapter vary, reflecting the challenge of understanding ancient language, cultural context, and theological nuances. As we embark on this journey, let's embrace humility and a willingness to engage with differing perspectives within the body of Christ.

 

Before delving into the intricate passages of 1 Corinthians 11, it's crucial to approach the text with humility and recognition of its complexity. Within Christian circles, interpretations of this chapter vary, reflecting the challenge of understanding ancient language, cultural context, and theological nuances. As we embark on this journey, let's embrace humility and a willingness to engage with differing perspectives within the body of Christ.

Unpacking the Principle of Headship

Paul's discourse on headship in 1 Corinthians 11:3 lays the groundwork for understanding the subsequent discussion on head coverings. This verse, often subject to controversy, highlights the concept of belonging and interdependence within the body of Christ. By exploring the multifaceted meaning of the Greek word "Kephale" (head), we gain insight into Paul's intended message of inclusivity and mutual respect among believers.

Building upon the principle of headship, Paul elucidates its application in various relationships, particularly within the context of marriage. Contrary to hierarchical notions of leadership, Paul emphasizes mutual respect and cooperation between husbands and wives. Through inclusive leadership, husbands are called to elevate and promote their wives, reflecting the unity and interconnectedness modeled by the Trinity.

  • God is the head of Christ by including him, promoting him, and exalting him.  He includes him as the agent of creation.  He puts him in the position to be the redeemer of the world, the prince of peace, the reconciler of humanity.  Not small stuff.  God heads Christ by exalting him to reign with the father.  And ‘he exalted him to the highest place so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow and every tongue confess that Jesus is lord.’  And now, he reigns WITH the father.

  • Christ heads men and the church by including, promoting, and exalting us.  He includes us because he has chosen not to do ministry without us.  We get to be his hands and feet in this world to lead, teach, pray, and give a cup of cold water in his name.   He allows us to grow and become by using our spiritual gifts for eternal impact.  Plus, one day, we, too, will be exalted and reign with him.  Our destiny is not as disembodied angels but as embodied co-regents with God over everything.

  • Men head women, and Husbands head wives by including, promoting, and exalting them.  So, does it not make sense that men head women by including, promoting, and exalting them – raising them up as co-leaders in every context?  This would include your household, business, church, or wherever you have dominion. 

Understanding Cultural Context and Personal Responsibility

Paul's directives regarding head coverings must be understood within the cultural milieu of ancient Corinth. Cultural norms regarding attire and social propriety informed Paul's instructions, aimed at preserving dignity and avoiding scandal. However, it's essential to recognize that these guidelines are not universally applicable but were tailored to address specific cultural practices. Furthermore, Paul underscores the importance of personal responsibility and autonomy, encouraging individuals to exercise discernment and wisdom in navigating cultural expectations while upholding biblical principles.

As we conclude our exploration of 1 Corinthians 11, let's embrace the diversity of interpretation within the body of Christ while remaining anchored in humility and reverence for Scripture. Whether we interpret headship as hierarchical leadership or mutual partnership, and whether we apply head coverings as cultural artifacts or enduring symbols of respect, may our discussions be characterized by grace, understanding, and a commitment to unity in Christ.

Blog adapted from April 7, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Evidence For the Resurrection

What defines our existence and gives it meaning? In the climactic chapter of 1 Corinthians 15, Paul points us toward the one thing that surpasses all others – the gospel. Paul's emphasis on the gospel in 1 Corinthians 15 serves as a reminder of its centrality. Amidst discussions on various matters, Paul brings our attention back to the core of our faith – the gospel. He emphasizes that the gospel is not just one among many teachings but the foundation upon which our entire belief system stands. Without holding firmly to this gospel, all other pursuits become futile.

 

In the 1991 movie "City Slickers," Jack Palance's character Curly imparts a profound lesson to Billy Crystal's character about the secret of life. Curly suggests that the secret lies in focusing on one thing, but when pressed to reveal what that one thing is, he leaves it to Billy to figure out. It's a frustrating yet brilliant concept, as life bombards us with distractions, stressors, and myriad concerns. Amidst this chaos, what truly matters? What defines our existence and gives it meaning? In the climactic chapter of 1 Corinthians 15, Paul points us toward the one thing that surpasses all others – the gospel.

Paul's emphasis on the gospel in 1 Corinthians 15 serves as a reminder of its centrality. Amidst discussions on various matters, Paul brings our attention back to the core of our faith – the gospel. He emphasizes that the gospel is not just one among many teachings but the foundation upon which our entire belief system stands. Without holding firmly to this gospel, all other pursuits become futile.

Unveiling the Essence of the Gospel

The essence of the gospel, as outlined by Paul in 1 Corinthians 15, encapsulates the pivotal events of Christ's death and resurrection. Paul distills the gospel message into its core components, highlighting their significance:

  • Christ Died for Our Sins: This fundamental truth underscores the sacrificial nature of Christ's death, wherein he took upon himself the penalty for our sins, offering us redemption and reconciliation with God.

  • According to the Scriptures: Paul emphasizes that Christ's death and resurrection were not arbitrary events but the fulfillment of centuries-old prophecies, demonstrating God's sovereignty and faithfulness throughout history.

  • He Was Raised on the Third Day: The resurrection stands as the linchpin of Christianity, distinguishing it from all other belief systems. Jesus' victory over death validates his divinity and promises eternal life to those who believe.

Embracing the Transformative Power of the Resurrection

The resurrection of Christ holds profound implications for humanity, offering hope, redemption, and victory over death. Paul paints a vivid picture of the transformative power of Christ's resurrection:

  • The Firstfruits of Resurrection: Jesus' resurrection serves as the harbinger of a future resurrection for all believers, symbolizing the defeat of death and the dawn of a new era.

  • The Defeat of Evil: Paul envisions a future where Christ's dominion extends over all realms, dismantling every form of oppression, injustice, and evil. The resurrection inaugurates a kingdom of righteousness and peace.

  • The Choice of Life: In light of these truths, Paul presents a stark choice – to align oneself with the realm of death, characterized by sin and its consequences, or to embrace the realm of life, marked by faith in Christ and participation in his resurrection.

Choosing Life

As we reflect on the profound truths of the gospel, we are confronted with a decision – to stake our lives on the reality of Christ's death and resurrection or to remain in the realm of spiritual death. The invitation is extended to all – to choose life, to embrace the transformative power of the resurrection, and to align ourselves with the kingdom of God. In doing so, we become participants in the ongoing work of redemption and restoration that began with Christ's resurrection and continues to this day.

Blog adapted from March 24, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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All Things to All People

Paul's profound commitment to adapt to different cultural contexts in his mission to spread the Gospel is evident in his letter to the Corinthians. His words resonate through the ages, echoing a profound truth about the importance of contextualization in sharing the message of Christ. As we embark on this journey, we find ourselves at a crossroads where tradition meets innovation, where cultural forms intersect with biblical norms. In this blog post, we'll explore the essence of contextualization through Paul's teachings, real-world examples from Green City to the historical legacy of St. Patrick, and how it applies to each one of us today.

 

Paul's profound commitment to adapt to different cultural contexts in his mission to spread the Gospel is evident in his letter to the Corinthians. His words resonate through the ages, echoing a profound truth about the importance of contextualization in sharing the message of Christ. As we embark on this journey, we find ourselves at a crossroads where tradition meets innovation, where cultural forms intersect with biblical norms. In this blog post, we'll explore the essence of contextualization through Paul's teachings, real-world examples from Green City to the historical legacy of St. Patrick, and how it applies to each one of us today.

Paul's Example and the Essence of Contextualization

Paul's words in Corinthians resonate deeply: "I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some." His commitment to adapting his approach to different cultures underscores the essence of contextualization in spreading the Gospel. Whether it meant abstaining from certain freedoms or embracing cultural practices, Paul understood that the message of Christ transcends cultural barriers. His example challenges us to reassess our own adherence to traditions and cultural forms that might hinder rather than facilitate the spread of the Gospel.

Real-World Examples: Contextualization in Action

The Green City Initiative offers a contemporary example of contextualization in action. In an all-Muslim culture where identifying as a pastor can be a barrier, local pastors and international workers have found innovative ways to build relationships and share the Gospel. By engaging in reforestation efforts and partnering with corporations on sustainable initiatives, they create opportunities for meaningful interactions and witness to the transformative power of Christ. Their approach underscores the importance of understanding and respecting cultural nuances while remaining steadfast in the message of salvation.

The Legacy of St. Patrick: Contextualization in History

The story of St. Patrick provides a compelling historical example of contextualization's impact. As a former slave turned missionary, Patrick exemplified adaptability and innovation in spreading Christianity throughout Ireland. His emphasis on empowering local communities, promoting literacy, and challenging societal norms paved the way for a thriving Christian church in a once-pagan land. Patrick's legacy reminds us of the enduring significance of contextualization in bridging cultural divides and transforming lives.

As we reflect on Paul's teachings, contemporary examples, and the legacy of St. Patrick, one truth becomes abundantly clear: contextualization is not just a strategy but a fundamental aspect of fulfilling the Great Commission. In a world marked by rapid change and diverse cultures, the need for adaptive and culturally sensitive approaches to sharing the Gospel has never been greater. Each one of us, regardless of age or background, has a role to play in contextualizing the message of Christ for our generation and the next. As we embrace this challenge, let us pray for wisdom, discernment, and a heart willing to become all things to all people for the sake of the Gospel.

Blog adapted from March 17, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton


 
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Freedoms & Disciplines

Drawing from the teachings of 1 Corinthians 9:19-27, we're reminded of the profound wisdom of the apostle Paul. In addressing the young and messy church in Corinth, Paul navigates the complexities of freedom and responsibility in the context of a pluralistic society. Paul's response is both radical and instructive. Despite his freedom in Christ, he willingly becomes a servant to all, adapting his approach to reach different groups – Jews, Gentiles, and the weak among them. His singular focus? To win as many as possible to the gospel of Jesus.

 

As a child of the 80s, few things captured my attention and competitive spirit like the classic Nintendo game, Mike Tyson's Punchout. The thrill of facing opponents like Glass Joe, King Hippo, and the Sandman, while striving to emerge victorious as the underdog "Mac," coached by the wise Doc, is a memory that still brings a smile to my face. Reflecting on those days of gaming glory, I can't help but draw parallels between the challenges of Mike Tyson’s Punchout and the lessons of life – particularly the concepts of freedom and discipline.

In the era of the NES console, there were no save points or checkpoints. Every time you played, you started from the very beginning. If you failed, it was back to square one. For us 80s kids, it was a lesson in perseverance. There were no shortcuts, no easy ways out. You had to keep pushing forward, overcoming obstacles with grit and determination. Yet, amidst the seemingly endless cycle of starting over, Punchout offered a glimmer of hope – the passcode. With the right combination written down and remembered, you could jumpstart your progress the next time you played. It was a lifeline, a chance to pick up where you left off and continue the journey towards victory.

Paul's Radical Response: Drawing from the teachings of 1 Corinthians 9:19-27, we're reminded of the profound wisdom of the apostle Paul. In addressing the young and messy church in Corinth, Paul navigates the complexities of freedom and responsibility in the context of a pluralistic society. Paul's response is both radical and instructive. Despite his freedom in Christ, he willingly becomes a servant to all, adapting his approach to reach different groups – Jews, Gentiles, and the weak among them. His singular focus? To win as many as possible to the gospel of Jesus.

In a culture obsessed with personal rights and freedoms, Paul's example challenges us to consider a different paradigm – one of sacrificial love and humility. He lays aside his own preferences and comforts for the sake of others, embodying the essence of servant leadership. But Paul doesn't stop there. He likens the Christian journey to a race, urging believers to run with purpose and discipline. Just as athletes undergo rigorous training for a temporary crown, we are called to pursue an eternal prize – the salvation of souls.

Embracing Spiritual Disciplines

In a world filled with distractions and temptations, embracing these disciplines is no easy task. But as Paul reminds us, the rewards far outweigh the sacrifices. Every soul won to Christ, every life transformed by the gospel – these are the true treasures that endure for eternity. So, as we engage with 1 Corinthians 9:19-27 and reminisce about the joys of gaming, let's also reflect on the timeless wisdom of Paul's words.

May we embrace the discipline of freedom, running our race with perseverance and purpose, all for the sake of the gospel. And who knows? Perhaps, like in Mike Tyson’s Punchout, the passcode to victory lies not in shortcuts or cheat codes, but in the steadfast pursuit of Christ and the unwavering commitment to love and serve others. In the end, that's a prize worth fighting for.

Blog adapted from March 10, 2024, message by Minister Jed Logue




 
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Marriage, Divorce & Intimacy

In today's fast-paced world, where online shopping and digital connections dominate, it's easy to forget a time when the window displays of a mall were our window to the world of consumerism. Yet, amidst the mannequins and storefronts, there was a subtle message being conveyed - a message of desire, of aspiration. These mannequins, though often unsettling in their headless forms, served a purpose: to showcase the glory of the designer's creations.

 

In today's fast-paced world, where online shopping and digital connections dominate, it's easy to forget a time when the window displays of a mall were our window to the world of consumerism. Yet, amidst the mannequins and storefronts, there was a subtle message being conveyed - a message of desire, of aspiration. These mannequins, though often unsettling in their headless forms, served a purpose: to showcase the glory of the designer's creations.

Exploring Paul's Wisdom: Insights from 1 Corinthians 7

As we journey back in time, let's shift our focus from mannequins to matters of the heart - marriage, singleness, intimacy, and even divorce. In the midst of a cultural minefield, the apostle Paul addresses the Corinthian church's inquiries about navigating these intricate facets of life in a society filled with conflicting values and norms. Paul's words in 1 Corinthians 7 provide timeless insights into the essence of marriage. In a world where relationships were often transactional and patriarchal, Paul challenges the status quo by emphasizing mutual respect and sacrificial love within the marital covenant. He draws upon the original design of marriage, echoing the union of Adam and Eve as a reflection of the glory of their Designer. Moreover, Paul extends his counsel to those who find themselves in situations of singleness or contemplating marriage. He affirms both states as gifts from God, each offering opportunities to glorify the Designer through faithful stewardship of one's life and relationships.

Navigating Divorce: Hope Amidst Brokenness

Understanding Paul's language in this section is crucial. When he refers to "no I, but the Lord," he's directing our attention to Jesus' teachings. This context is like entering a conversation in progress. Let's rewind to a story in Matthew 19, where some religious leaders question Jesus about divorce, reflecting the patriarchal norms of their time. Jesus, rather than giving a direct answer, responds with another question, redirecting them to the teachings of Moses. The leaders refer to Deuteronomy 24:1, where they argues that divorce is permitted for various reasons, often trivial ones, leading to abuse of the law and leaving women vulnerable.

However, Jesus pivots the conversation, emphasizing God's original design for marriage as depicted in Genesis. He underscores the permanence of marriage while acknowledging the reality of brokenness in a fallen world. Jesus clarifies that divorce is permissible in cases of sexual immorality, restoring the sanctity of marriage. Paul will delve further into the topic of divorce in the following session, acknowledging its complexity and the pain it entails. He recognizes that divorce contradicts God's intended plan for marriage, yet acknowledges the brokenness of humanity and the need for grace in navigating these challenges.

For those experiencing the aftermath of divorce, Paul offers empathy and encouragement. While divorce is not part of anyone's marital aspirations, in a broken world, it unfortunately occurs. However, there are biblical grounds for divorce, including adultery, abandonment, and abuse, though each situation requires careful consideration. IIf you find yourself in such circumstances, know that your pain is not overlooked. Seek support from trusted individuals or resources, recognizing that healing and restoration are possible through God's grace and intervention. If you're seeking guidance in your marriage or navigating the aftermath of divorce, consider exploring available resources and support networks, such as those offered at cccomaha.org/marriage. There are compassionate individuals ready to walk alongside you in your journey toward healing and restoration.

Married to Unbelievers: Radiating Christ's Love in Relationships

Furthermore, Paul extends compassion to believers married to unbelieving spouses, urging them to embody the transformative power of Christ's love within their marriages. Through their witness and steadfastness, they have the opportunity to sanctify their households and demonstrate the redemptive work of God in their lives.

Ultimately, Paul's teachings on marriage and relationships point us towards a deeper reality - that our earthly unions are but a reflection of a greater covenantal bond between Christ and His Church. As recipients of God's boundless love and grace, we are called to embody that same love in our relationships, displaying the glory of our Designer to a world in need of hope and reconciliation. May we heed Paul's exhortation to live lives that magnify the beauty and goodness of our Creator in every relationship we cultivate. Whether married or single, may our interactions bear witness to the transformative power of God's love, drawing others into the embrace of His unfailing grace.

Blog adapted from February 25, 2024, message by Minister Alex Ehly


 
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Lawsuits and Sexual Morality

In our exploration through the book of 1 Corinthians, we confront two contentious topics: lawsuits and sexual immorality. These subjects aren't chosen for mere controversy but to unearth profound lessons on thriving within a flawed congregation. As we delve into Chapter 6, Paul's letter to the Corinthians unveils invaluable guidance on handling disputes within the church community.

 

In our exploration through the book of 1 Corinthians, we confront two contentious topics: lawsuits and sexual immorality. These subjects aren't chosen for mere controversy but to unearth profound lessons on thriving within a flawed congregation. As we delve into Chapter 6, Paul's letter to the Corinthians unveils invaluable guidance on handling disputes within the church community.

When disputes arise among believers, the instinct might be to seek legal recourse. However, Paul urges restraint, reminding us of the broader implications. Dragging internal disagreements into secular courts tarnishes the reputation of Christ. Paul advocates for seeking resolution within the community of believers, tapping into the wisdom present among fellow Christians. This approach not only fosters reconciliation but also upholds the integrity of the faith before the wider world.

Consider the anecdotes of grappling with conflict in the church. In one instance, a Christian business's subpar performance led to a dilemma: pursue legal action or absorb the loss. Another scenario involved a Christian college embroiled in a legal battle with another institution, despite opportunities for reconciliation. In both cases, the decision to avoid litigation prioritized preserving the witness of Christ's followers.

Paul's counsel extends beyond mere conflict resolution; it underscores the significance of love and maintaining a positive reputation among non-believers. By adhering to these principles, even amidst discord, the church can exemplify Christ's teachings in a world fraught with division.

Judging Angels and the Future Reign

Amidst discussions on disputes, Paul interjects with a thought-provoking tangent: the future role of believers in judging the world and even angels. This revelation challenges conventional notions of the afterlife, hinting at a grander purpose for those who follow Christ faithfully.

The prospect of ruling alongside Jesus in the coming age should ignite awe and anticipation. Our current earthly conflicts serve as preparatory exercises for the weightier responsibilities awaiting us. This glimpse into our future underscores the transformative power of aligning our lives with Christ's teachings.

As we navigate present challenges, let's remember that they are but a prelude to the eternal reign promised to believers. Embracing this perspective empowers us to endure with hope and perseverance, knowing that our ultimate destiny far exceeds the trials of today.

Honoring God with Our Bodies

Paul's discourse on sexual immorality serves as a poignant reminder of our sacred identity as temples of the Holy Spirit. He exhorts believers to flee from sexual sin, emphasizing its spiritual significance beyond mere physical pleasure.

Contrary to cultural narratives, sex isn't merely a physical act but a profound union designed by God to reflect the intimacy between Christ and the Church. Engaging in sexual immorality desecrates this sacred union, aligning oneself with darkness rather than light.

Our bodies, indwelt by the Holy Spirit, carry immense value, purchased at the highest cost—the sacrificial death of Jesus. Understanding our worth in God's eyes should compel us to honor Him with our bodies, resisting the allure of sinful indulgence.

In closing, let's embrace our identity as redeemed individuals, purified by the blood of Christ. May our lives testify to the transformative power of God's love, drawing others into the fellowship of believers and ultimately, into the eternal kingdom of God.

Blog adapted from February 18, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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A Biblical Understanding of Sexuality

This week, our journey through 1 Corinthians brings us to a topic that, while perhaps uncomfortable, is crucial for our faith community: sex and sexual immorality. It's not a subject chosen lightly or for sensationalism; rather, it's where our study has naturally led us.

 

This week, our journey through 1 Corinthians brings us to a topic that, while perhaps uncomfortable, is crucial for our faith community—sex and sexual immorality. It’s not a subject chosen lightly or for sensationalism; rather, it's where our study through 1 Corinthians has naturally led us.

In 1 Corinthians 5, Paul confronts a situation of sexual immorality within the Church—a man involved with his stepmother, a scenario that even non-believers found shocking. This passage isn’t just a window into the challenges of the early Church; it’s a mirror reflecting issues still present in today’s churches. So what does Paul mean by sexual immorality? In the Greek, this word is porneia. You can imagine what word we get in English from this Greek root! But in ancient times, there were no illicit websites or dirty magazines. So the translators do a good job saying “sexual immorality.”

The unfortunate reality is that no church is immune to scandals. From the Catholic priest abuse scandal to systemic issues within the Southern Baptist Convention and even closer to home with several in our own denomination, these incidents remind us that sexual immorality knows no denominational bounds. Such events deeply grieve us, not just because of the hypocrisy they unveil, but because of the real harm done to individuals and the broader disillusionment with faith they can cause.

Paul's instruction to “hand this man over to Satan” is a directive towards church discipline with a goal of restoration, not punishment. It’s about removing the individual from the church community in hopes that they will come to repentance and ultimately be saved. It’s a tough, yet necessary, action that underscores the church’s commitment to holiness and the well-being of its members.

The prevalence of sexual immorality and the church’s response to it underscores a larger issue: how we navigate the tension between upholding biblical standards of morality while extending grace and restoration to those who stumble. It’s a balance that requires wisdom, compassion, and a deep reliance on the Holy Spirit.

Moreover, the purity culture movement of recent decades, with its emphasis on sexual abstinence outside of marriage, has garnered criticism for its unintended consequences. While well-intentioned, aspects of this movement have sometimes resulted in shame, guilt, and a distorted view of sexuality and forgiveness. It’s important to remember that our identity and worth are not defined by our past mistakes but by our present and future in Christ.

We must also pay attention to verses 12 and 13, in which Paul states, “What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside.” Paul’s letter to the Corinthians was very specific to addressing and dealing with sexual immorality within the church, not amongst unbelievers.

Paul’s message to the Corinthians and to us is clear: the Church must address sexual immorality within its ranks, not with a spirit of condemnation, but with the aim of healing, restoration, and a return to godly living. This includes practical steps for individuals struggling with sexual sin, encouragement for pure relationships, and support for those seeking healing from past hurts.

Paul writes a clarifying section: verse 9 says, “I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with immoral people.” What letter? I thought this was First Corinthians? Well, based on the clues in 1 and 2 Corinthians, like this one, it seems as though Paul actually wrote the Corinthians four times.

As we delve into these topics, let’s approach them with open hearts and minds, ready to learn, grow, and support one another. Our goal is not to cast judgment but to foster an environment where every member of our community can pursue holiness, healing, and the fullness of life in Christ. Together, let’s navigate these waters, leaning not on our own understanding but on the wisdom and guidance of the Holy Spirit.

Blog adapted from February 11, 2024, message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Faithful Fools for Christ

In a world seemingly riddled with skepticism and a dwindling trust in institutions, it's clear that society is facing a crisis of confidence. A 2022 Gallup poll reflects this stark reality: only 31% of people hold a "great deal" of trust in the church or organized religion, while trust in other institutions like public schools, banks, and television news hovers at equally low percentages. In seeking answers, we turn to the ancient wisdom of the Bible, specifically the book of 1 Corinthians, where the Apostle Paul addresses similar challenges within the early Church.

 

In a world seemingly riddled with skepticism and a dwindling trust in institutions, it's clear that society is facing a crisis of confidence. A 2022 Gallup poll reflects this stark reality: only 31% of people hold a “great deal” of trust in the church or organized religion, while trust in other institutions like public schools, banks, and television news hovers at equally low percentages. From historical scandals like Watergate and the Enron bankruptcy to the recurring issues of impeachments and environmental crises, it’s evident that institutional trust is faltering.

In seeking answers, we turn to the ancient wisdom of the Bible, specifically the book of 1 Corinthians, where the Apostle Paul addresses similar challenges within the early Church. Paul's letter to the Corinthians is not just a communication; it’s a corrective surgery intended to heal and guide a fragmented community. His teachings provide timeless insights into the nature of true leadership and the path to rebuilding trust.

Paul's message in 1 Corinthians 4:1–13 is profound in its simplicity and depth. He introduces the concept of Christian leadership as being servants and stewards of Christ's teachings. The imagery he uses is striking—leaders are likened to “under-rowers” of a ship, working in harmony with others and following the master's command, and stewards managing a household, entrusted with great responsibilities. This perspective shifts the focus from authority and power to service and stewardship. Leadership, according to Paul, is not about self-promotion or personal kingdoms; it’s about faithfulness to a higher calling and service to others.

But Paul doesn't stop there. He challenges the Corinthians—and us—to reevaluate our understanding of success and influence. Paul presents a counter-narrative in a society that often equates leadership with wealth, power, and status. True leadership involves suffering, humility, and being “fools for Christ.” This is not a message of defeat but a radical redefinition of victory—one that values faithfulness over fame and service over supremacy.

As we reflect on these teachings, we confront our own perceptions of leadership and trust. Are we seeking to serve or to be served? Are we striving for personal gain or aiming to faithfully steward the responsibilities entrusted to us? Paul’s letter encourages a leadership that echoes Christ's own—marked by humility, service, and a steadfast commitment to a higher purpose.

In a world desperate for trustworthy leaders, the message of 1 Corinthians resonates with clarity and urgency. It’s a call to embrace a leadership that is not swayed by the changing tides of public opinion but is anchored in faithfulness and service. As we navigate the trust crisis within our institutions and communities, may we find inspiration in Paul’s words to be faithful servants, wise stewards, and, when necessary, joyful fools for Christ. Only then can we begin to rebuild the trust so essential to our collective well-being and hope.

Your faithful service, your faithful stewardship, and your faithful sufferings through trials are reflections of Jesus himself—the One who showed unwavering loyalty to you first. He is the One who cherished you before anyone else, who loved you unconditionally, and who bore suffering and death for your sake, even when you were distant from him. Your commitment is a powerful witness to the enduring faithfulness of Christ. You are called to join an extraordinary and unyielding movement!

Blog adapted from February 4, 2024 message by Minister Alex Ehly

 
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Building Lives That Last

1 Corinthians 3:1-15 is a passage that teaches us about building our lives to last. It's a passage that's especially relevant for our youth, but its message resonates with all of us. We all deeply long to make a lasting impact on this world and leave a legacy beyond our time on Earth. So, let's dive into the wisdom of this passage and explore how we can build lives that truly endure.

 

1 Corinthians 3:1-15 is a passage that teaches us about building our lives to last. It's a passage that's especially relevant for our youth, but its message resonates with all of us. We all deeply long to make a lasting impact on this world and leave a legacy beyond our time on Earth. So, let's dive into the wisdom of this passage and explore how we can build lives that truly endure.

Grow Up: In the opening verses of this passage, the Apostle Paul addresses the Corinthians both lovingly and sternly. He acknowledges their immaturity as Christians, urging them to grow up spiritually. It's crucial for us, too. Whether we're new to the faith or have been walking with Jesus for a while, we must continually pursue spiritual maturity.

Paul identifies their issues: jealousy, envy, and rivalry, behaviors that prioritize self over others. If we find ourselves displaying such traits, we need to take a step back and ask ourselves, "Am I truly growing in my faith?" Let's commit to a growth journey, putting others first, trusting in God, being bold, and generously sharing our blessings.

Obey and Rely on God: As we continue, we see that Paul emphasizes the importance of obeying and relying on God. He compares our role in building our lives to planting and watering, while God is the one who makes things grow. This applies to our spiritual growth and our efforts to pass on our faith to the next generation.

It's a reminder that we don't need to carry the weight of evangelism or discipleship on our shoulders alone. We should obey God's call and rely on Him to work through our actions. Unity among believers is essential in this process. Let's work together, across our differences, to fulfill God's mission of loving Jesus, making disciples, and building lives that last.

Your Work Will Be Revealed by Fire: We're reminded that our work will be revealed by fire. The foundation of our lives must be Jesus Christ; anything not built upon Him is like wood, hay, or straw, which will not withstand the testing fire. We must continually evaluate our motives and ensure that we're building on the firm foundation of Christ.

As we reflect on our lives, let's ask ourselves, "Am I building on Jesus? Am I living each moment for Him?" The refining fire of God will reveal the quality of our work. May we strive to build lives rooted in Christ so our legacy endures and brings glory to God.

In closing, let's take a moment to pray and ask God to help us internalize these lessons. May He empower us to build lives that last, rooted in Christ, and may our efforts bring glory to His name. Let us commit to growing spiritually, obeying and relying on God, and ensuring that our work stands the test of fire. As we invest in the next generation, we build a legacy that will impact eternity.

Blog adapted from January 28, 2024, message by Minister Brad Mock

If you want more information on getting plugged into our Youth Ministry, email Minister Brad at bradm@cccomaha.org


 
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Prayer, Humility, and Unseen Dimensions

In the tapestry of faith, prayer is the thread that connects believers with the divine. Reaching one more person for Jesus is a lifelong journey that must be guided by prayer and reliance on God's wisdom, and marked by humility and love.

 

In the tapestry of faith, prayer is the thread that connects believers with the divine. Reaching one more person for Jesus is a lifelong journey that must be guided by prayer and reliance on God's wisdom, and marked by humility and love.

God desires to reach people more than we do. This must serve as the cornerstone of our efforts! Prayer is a powerful tool that opens doors for this. The correlation between prayer and divine opportunities is stunning. We acknowledge that God works in his own timing, but our role in the meantime is to remain steadfast in prayer (1 Corinthians 2:1–3). Let’s continue to be committed to praying for our “one more” every day!

A Lesson in Humility

Let’s now focus on evangelism by taking a look at Apostle Paul’s approach. The manuscript shares a personal journey, admitting to a youthful misconception that superior knowledge and persuasive arguments could win people to Jesus. The realization that humility, not eloquence or human wisdom, is key to effective communication of the gospel is highlighted. The emphasis shifts to the scandalous nature of Christ crucified and its unparalleled power (1 Corinthians 2:4–5).

The centrality of Christ crucified is explored, emphasizing its scandalous nature and its profound impact on human hearts. The manuscript delves into the strategic brilliance of God's plan, where victory over death, sin, and Satan is achieved through weakness, humility, and unwavering commitment. The phrase "We Are All For Jesus" becomes a rallying cry, encapsulating the transformative power of Christ's sacrifice.

Tour Guides, Not Salesmen

The narrative introduces the concept of being 'tour guides' rather than 'salesmen' in sharing the message of Jesus. The approach involves walking alongside, inviting participation, and allowing individuals to respond at their own pace. The importance of self-discovery and inviting others to explore the Bible firsthand is emphasized, echoing the principle of winning hearts, not arguments.

Practical strategies, such as launching seeker groups, are proposed as a means to facilitate deeper exploration of Jesus. Personal stories and anecdotes highlight the effectiveness of this approach, emphasizing the impact of self-discovered truth over persuasive arguments. Moving beyond words, the manuscript introduces the concept of demonstrating the Spirit's power. Miracles, supernatural healings, and transformed lives become powerful testimonies that cannot be refuted. The emphasis on the fruit of the Spirit and service to others as demonstrations of God's power reinforces the second DNA statement: "We Are Empowered by the Holy Spirit."

Wisdom Beyond Conventions & Comprehension

The narrative transitions to the importance of wisdom but cautions against relying on conventional worldly wisdom. The mysterious wisdom of God, hidden throughout history, is declared, revealing a counterintuitive understanding that matures as believers progress in their journey with Christ (I Cor 2:6-8). The manuscript concludes with a thought-provoking exploration of dimensions beyond human comprehension. Drawing inspiration from physics, astronomy, and the Bible, it speculates on the nature of the new bodies believers will receive and the transcendent reality of the New Heavens and New Earth. The anticipation of a future that surpasses imagination becomes a driving force in the mission to reach one more.

In the grand tapestry of faith, prayer, humility, and the revelation of the unseen dimension, weave together to form a compelling narrative of reaching one more for Jesus. The manuscript serves as a guide, encouraging believers to embrace a holistic approach that encompasses prayer, humility, effective communication, and a demonstration of the Spirit's power on the journey of faith.

Blog adapted from January 21, 2024 message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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The Foolishness of the Cross

In the ancient city of Corinth, the Apostle Paul faced a challenge that resonates with today's Church—divisions based on leaders. The Church, once a unified body, began to splinter over preferences for different teachers. This phenomenon is not exclusive to the past; even today, churches face similar challenges, amplified by the influence of the internet. In this blog post, we explore Paul's response to such divisions and reflect on the timeless message of the cross.

 

In the ancient city of Corinth, the Apostle Paul faced a challenge that resonates with today's Church—divisions based on leaders. The Church, once a unified body, began to splinter over preferences for different teachers. This phenomenon is not exclusive to the past; even today, churches face similar challenges, amplified by the influence of the internet. In this blog post, we explore Paul's response to such divisions and reflect on the timeless message of the cross.

The Messiness of Church Life

Paul, having planted the church in Corinth, was dismayed to hear about the factions emerging among the believers. The church was dividing over allegiance to specific leaders—a situation that may sound familiar to many today. Whether it’s aligning with speakers, pastors, or online influencers, the trend of following leaders has persisted through time.

Data/original chart from the Association of Religion Data Archives

Internet Amplification

The internet has exacerbated this issue, providing a plethora of choices for individuals to follow. The availability of renowned speakers and preachers online has led to a situation where people may prioritize their favorite communicators over the local church leaders. This division can result in a fragmented Christian community, contrary to the unity that Paul emphasized.

Paul’s Clear Warning

Paul’s response to this issue is clear and unequivocal: Christians are not meant to follow human leaders blindly. In his letter to the Corinthians, he sarcastically asks if Christ is divided or if Paul was crucified for them. His message is straightforward—there is only one Savior, one message, one Lord, one faith, and one baptism, and that is Jesus Christ.

The Foolishness of the Cross

Central to Paul’s argument is the concept of the foolishness of the cross. The message of the cross may seem absurd to those who do not understand its significance. The world's wisdom often clashes with the divine wisdom encapsulated in the cross. Paul challenges the prevailing values of the Corinthians, who valued eloquent speakers, by asserting that the true power lies in the message of the cross.

Paul introduces an epistemological revolution—a new way of understanding wisdom, power, and wealth. Through the lens of the cross, the world’s wisdom is frustrated, and God’s foolishness becomes the power of salvation. This paradigm shift transforms the way believers perceive the world.

The lens of the world

The lens of the cross

God Chooses the Foolish

In a world that values strength, wisdom, and influence, God deliberately chooses the foolish, weak, and despised to shame the strong. The ordinary and seemingly insignificant become vessels for God’s extraordinary purposes. Paul reminds the Corinthians that God often works through “things that are not” to nullify the “things that are.”

The application is clear—believers are called to boast in the Lord, not in human leaders or worldly accomplishments. As the world’s priorities crumble, what remains is the eternal and glorious wisdom of God. Investing time, resources, and life for the sake of Jesus may seem foolish to the world but is, in fact, the power of God at work.

In a world where divisions over leaders persist, Paul’s message to the Corinthians echoes loudly. The call is to look beyond human leaders, whether local or global, and fix our gaze on the unifying message of the cross. As believers, our allegiance is not to charismatic speakers or influential leaders but to the One who never disappoints—Jesus Christ. The foolishness of the cross becomes the profound wisdom of God, challenging us to boast not in ourselves but in the Lord who unites us all.

Blog adapted from January 14, 2024 message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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Navigating the Messiness of Church: Healing from Church Hurt

Let's be honest—churches are messy. From scandals to personal struggles, the church, in all its imperfection, often surprises us with its flaws. This reality hit home for me during a leadership camp in Michigan with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. The president, a paragon of virtue, stepped down due to an affair. It shattered my preconceived notions, revealing the messy truth about the church.

 

Let’s be honest—churches are messy. From scandals to personal struggles, the Church, in all its imperfection, often surprises us with its flaws. This reality hit home for me during a leadership camp in Michigan with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. The president, a paragon of virtue, stepped down due to an affair. It shattered my preconceived notions, revealing the messy truth about the Church.

Experiences of Church Hurt

Church hurt is a real and painful phenomenon, ranging from financial misconduct to rejection of the vulnerable. Stories of infidelity, rejection of unwed pregnant women, and even divisions over trivial matters illuminate the messiness within church communities. As a pastor, I’ve witnessed the underbelly of church life and seen the wounds and struggles of church members.

The Messy Church at Corinth

The Bible itself addresses the messy nature of churches, and perhaps the prime example is the Church at Corinth in Greece. The Apostle Paul, along with his companion Sosthenes, writes a letter to the Corinthians, acknowledging their messiness and offering guidance.

Acknowledging and addressing church hurt is crucial for healing and transformation. Here's a brief overview of steps to navigate the complexities of church hurt:

  1. Define church hurt as immoral. Recognize that hurtful actions within the Church go against the core values of healing, forgiveness, encouragement, and care for the vulnerable. Don't shy away from calling out wrongs.

  2. Separate church hurt from God's love. Differentiate between the actions of individuals within the Church and the character of God. Understand that abusive behavior contradicts the nature of a loving and just God.

  3. Recover your identity. Root your identity in the gospel, understanding that you are sanctified and called to be holy. Seek support outside the toxic church environment, whether through counseling, recovery groups, or a healthier church community.

  4. Reclaim your spiritual practices. Despite past spiritual abuse, reclaim practices like church attendance, Bible study, and prayer. Don’t let the actions of others steal the joy from life-giving practices designed for your edification and growth.

  5. Remember that God is against church hurt. Understand that God grieves when his people experience hurt within the church. He desires to meet individuals in their deepest, most sensitive places and bring healing without force or manipulation.

Navigating church hurt is a challenging journey, but it’s essential for personal growth and restoration. By acknowledging the messiness, separating it from God’s love, reclaiming your identity, and remembering God’s desire for healing, you can find a path to recovery. The Church may be imperfect, but God’s love remains a source of unwavering support.

Blog adapted from January 7, 2024 message by Minister Mark Ashton

 
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